Important Aspects for Healthy Relationships
One client asked me “what does a good relationship look like?” I pointed them to some the following characteristics.
Mutual Respect: How do I treat the other person? Do I communicate she has value?
Compassion: Am I genuinely concerned about what he is concerned about?
Empathy: To what degree am I able to be transparent to what she feels?
Understanding: Do I really seek to understand what he says or does?
Acceptance: Does he and I accept the other the way we are?
Honesty: Is truthfulness the foundation on which this relationship is constructed?
Trust: To what degree am I willing to let him know private aspects of my thoughts and feeling?
Communication: Can she and I talk easily about issues that are important to our relationship?
Consideration: Am I aware of his needs as well as my own?
Compatibility and Mutual Enjoyment: To what degree do we value similar things?
Personal Integrity: Am I able to preserve my own beliefs and awareness of self in addition to offer my time and devotion to the relationship?
Vulnerability: To what degree can I relinquish my walls and allow her to see my apparent weaknesses without fear of reprisal?
The above is adapted from Woititz (1990).
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